What people say in the heat of the moment tends to reflect what they really think of you.

What people say in loving moments reflects what they dream and want of you.

In anger people lose control and lose pretence. 

If in an embrace they call you an angel and in anger they call you a whoring dog chances are that they believe you are a dog and view and treat you as such.

Don’t be offended when this happens.

Don’t sink low.

Don’t return the insult.

If there is no dog in you then don’t bark back.

It is their perception and their past that seeks to make a dog out of you.

But remember , you aren’t a dog till you allow someone to reduce you into one.

Remember you haven’t failed when someone says give up, but you fail when you actually give up.

https://phindelamuses.wordpress.com/2011/07/13/of-heart-and-mind/

By Phindela's Muses

Phindela’s Muses is the pen name of Nqobile Ncube. After much prodding i reluctantly waded into transferring my thoughts to the electronic notebook. I write as I see. I write as I feel. I write as I hear. I prod the deepest vivid image I can conjure and if at least one person derives some good from it then I am a happy man.

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